Negative thoughts, doubts, and insecurities often lead to more negative thoughts, doubts, and insecurities.

This friend of mine let her insecurities gets the best of her. While everyone has moments of insecurity, being suspicious on a daily basis is problematic. Suspicion, if left unchecked, can destroy a relationship. For these, I feel that she has gotten herself into this mess and even myself too.

She accused me of being the third party all this while when she's having issues with her beau. How could I when infact I never ever have any comunications what so ever with him. This started out when her beau admitted that he used to have a crush/liking on me (read: used to). I thought she have this maturity and realised this is a thing of the past. Since she's the one who initiate the "Be Honest" question, she should be prepared to hear the unexpected.

So much for trust issues. I guess when you accepted someone to be part of your life, there comes a warranty with it. Trusting one's partner is an important aspect in building a stronger relationship. If from the start you feel that you can't put your trust in him, don't dwell into a relationship yet. It will just make you suffer in the end.

I hate to be in this kind of mess.